
Irish Musings
Addendum
Thursday, December 22, 2005
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My dear
friends: here we have a wonderful story about overcoming adversity. It
is a tribute to a great man and the delight is that he is ours, yes Bud
Dudley is Notre Dame to us in Memphis and to
tens of thousands around the world. He is a great man, a great patriot
and a great friend.
I must
tell you that I had the privilege of being with him and his lovely wife
Peggy at their senior prom.
Yes, I
know I am not 86, and yet I was there. Yes I was!
And the
key to the puzzle about how this could be is the rest of the story, as
Paul Harvey would say.
It so
happened that Bud's class is 1943 and mine is 1963 and so our classes go
to reunion at the same time. Well, while strolling across the Notre
Dame campus at reunion 93, I happened upon Bud and Peggy in their
best finery, he in his tux and she in her evening dress! And what do
you know, but they were headed to their senior prom at age 72!!!
How can
this be?
Well, we
have no clue do we at this time in 2005, but it was because Bud and
nearly all of his classmates were off to War in 1943 and there was no
prom at Notre Dame. That is right! No prom! And so, you guessed it!
Fifty years later these kids had their prom after all. Isn't that
wonderful?
Bud and
his family and the rest of us lost Peggy to Alzheimer's some six years
or so ago.
Ironically, before Peggy was diagnosed with the disease, Bud was honored
here in Memphis as the Man of Year by the Memphis Alzheimer's
Association. The organizers of the event asked the Notre Dame Club to
send someone to speak about the Notre Dame side of his life.
Representing our Club, I spoke at the event. There were four other
speakers who preceded me.
They
gave me four minutes, but I took seven----boldly taking more time for
Notre Dame. It was easy: no one noticed. The opportunity inspired and
moved me, and then after the seven minutes, which was the last of five
speeches, Peggy leaned over to me and whispered in my ear something
roughly like this
----no
one here except the Notre Dame people would understand this, but what
you said means far more to us than all of what all the others said!
What
Peggy said to me was one of the most moving experiences of my life.
Later,
on the same day that the Murrah Center in Oklahoma City was bombed, our
Club had our Universal Notre Dame Night, with Father Joyce as the
speaker. At that dinner we honored Bud and gave him a football signed
by Father Joyce and Father Hesburgh! And, I spoke about his
contributions to our lives and the community----essentially the same
speech. What an honor!
My wife
Heather and I have never known a more delightful couple----two people
who had been all over the world and met anyone and everyone anyone could
imagine and yet when we first met them, all they could think about was
asking us questions about ourselves and learning about us.
Below is
a misnomer----it should be entitled "Mr. Notre Dame of Memphis and
Philadelphia"
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Charlie Kenny
Class of 1963
The Right Brain People®
279 Norseman Drive
Cordova TN 38018
901.682.8569
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