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Addendum

Thursday, December 22, 2005

 

My dear friends: here we have a wonderful story about overcoming adversity.  It is a tribute to a great man and the delight is that he is ours, yes Bud Dudley is Notre Dame to us in Memphis and to tens of thousands around the world.  He is a great man, a great patriot and a great friend.
 
I must tell you that I had the privilege of being with him and his lovely wife Peggy at their senior prom.
 
Yes, I know I am not 86, and yet I was there.  Yes I was!
 
And the key to the puzzle about how this could be is the rest of the story, as Paul Harvey would say.
 
It so happened that Bud's class is 1943 and mine is 1963 and so our classes go to reunion at the same time.  Well, while strolling across the Notre Dame campus at reunion 93, I happened upon Bud and Peggy in their best finery, he in his tux and she in her evening dress!  And what do you know, but they were headed to their senior prom at age 72!!!
 
How can this be?
 
Well, we have no clue do we at this time in 2005, but it was because Bud and nearly all of his classmates were off to War in 1943 and there was no prom at Notre Dame.  That is right!  No prom!  And so, you guessed it!  Fifty years later these kids had their prom after all.  Isn't that wonderful?
 
Bud and his family and the rest of us lost Peggy to Alzheimer's some six years or so ago.
 
Ironically, before Peggy was diagnosed with the disease, Bud was honored here in Memphis as the Man of Year by the Memphis Alzheimer's Association.  The organizers of the event asked the Notre Dame Club to send someone to speak about the Notre Dame side of his life.  Representing our Club, I spoke at the event. There were four other speakers who preceded me.  
 
They gave me four minutes, but I took seven----boldly taking more time for Notre Dame.  It was easy: no one noticed.  The opportunity inspired and moved me, and then after the seven minutes, which was the last of five speeches, Peggy leaned over to me and whispered in my ear something roughly like this
----no one here except the Notre Dame people would understand this, but what you said means far more to us than all of what all the others said! 
 
What Peggy said to me was one of the most moving experiences of my life. 
 
Later, on the same day that the Murrah Center in Oklahoma City was bombed, our Club had our Universal Notre Dame Night, with Father Joyce as the speaker.  At that dinner we honored Bud and gave him a football signed by Father Joyce and Father Hesburgh!  And, I spoke about his contributions to our lives and the community----essentially the same speech.  What an honor!
 
My wife Heather and I have never known a more delightful couple----two people who had been all over the world and met anyone and everyone anyone could imagine and yet when we first met them, all they could think about was asking us questions about ourselves and learning about us.
 
Below is a misnomer----it should be entitled "Mr. Notre Dame of Memphis and Philadelphia" 

 

 

Mr. Liberty Bowl

A.F. 'Bud' Dudley Press Box honors game's founder

By Zack McMillin
December 20, 2005

As old friends stopped to say hello, to say they were honored to come to Liberty Bowl Memorial Stadium for a Monday luncheon honoring a true Memphis original, Ambrose Francis Dudley smiled like a man satisfied with his legacy in 86 years of living.

Bud Dudley (seated), who founded the Liberty Bowl, talks with past Liberty Bowl president Jim Gilliland during a ceremony Monday recognizing Dudley's achievments.   [ Matthew Craig/Associated Press]

He played football at Notre Dame in the '40s, where he made his friend Ed McMahon guffaw long before Johnny Carson. He graduated early -- Phi Beta Kappa, president of his class -- so he could enlist, and he would win the Distinguished Flying Cross for being the lead navigator in a B-24 bombing group that flew 54 missions over Europe.

Memphians know him best, however, as a creative sports entrepreneur who brought his patriotism-themed bowl game, the Liberty Bowl, to the city.  He is an old man now, in need of a walker and with black shoes with velcro straps, but the man who introduced himself to Memphis 40 years ago as Bud Dudley is strong of pride and vibrant of memory when it comes to the bowl game he weaved into the fabric of Memphis and college football.

The folks who run what is now known as the AutoZone Liberty Bowl honored Dudley by unveiling a new name for the stadium press box -- the A.F. 'Bud' Dudley Press Box -- and by giving him the AutoZone Liberty Bowl Distinguished Citizen Award.

"Brings back a lot of memories," Dudley said.

When Dudley brought his fledgling bowl to Memphis, for the 1965 game, total attendance in the previous two games -- in Philadelphia and Atlantic City, N.J. -- was 14,368.

In the first game in Memphis, 38,607 watched Ole Miss beat Auburn.

Convinced he had found a new home, Dudley moved his family down shortly thereafter.  "I met the nicest people I ever met in Memphis," Dudley said.

Dudley, a former athletic director at Villanova whose father was a pioneering sports entrepeneur in Philly, was then in competition with only seven other bowls.

Today, with 28 bowls, the landscape has changed dramatically. Steve Ehrhart, who succeeded Dudley as the bowl's executive director in 1994, pointed out that the days of "recruiting" schools are long over, although many of the bowl's past presidents reveled in telling old war stories.

Trow Gillespie, a past president, recalled 1982, when Alabama played Illinois in the final game for legendary Crimson Tide coach Paul 'Bear' Bryant.  Gillespie, who played football at Vanderbilt, was giddy because it looked like his alma mater had earned the invite.  That is, until Bryant called and said he wanted to play.

"Everybody was standing and cheering and hugging each other," Gillespie said. "I said, 'Wait a minute. We've got to vote.' And everyone said, 'We just voted.'"  Alabama had played in the first Liberty Bowl, in 1959 in Philadelphia. The final score: 7-0, Penn State, with the two quarterbacks combining for two pass completions.

Fresno State and Tulsa will play in this, the 47th incarnation, on Dec. 31. Both teams feature high-powered offenses, reflecting the game's evolution over the last half century.

The scribes high above the field, in the A.F. 'Bud' Dudley Press Box, will be greeted by a large historical plaque engraved with a tribute to "the gentleman who had the vision and courage to found the Liberty Bowl Football Classic, a collegiate bowl game honoring our country."

Greeted by a standing ovation, Dudley himself raised up out of his seat to acknowledge friends, family and assorted dignitaries, including old friend and opera diva Marguerite Piazza.  He stayed standing for much of the rest of the afternoon, even when a grandson asked: "Grandfather, do you need to sit down?"   "No," Dudley said. "I'm OK."

Another old friend, Charlotte Neal, visits Dudley and, like Piazza, often takes him out for meals.  "Bud has some tough days," she said. "But this is a really good one. God love him."

Asked his feelings, Dudley became the old hard-scrabble WWII veteran that he is.  "It's hard for me to express my feelings," he said, simply, "without getting sentimental."

And so he didn't, but his bright eyes said enough.

CommercialAppeal.com

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